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It’s not uncommon or unusual for men to look around them and think that jerks have all of the luck when it comes to dating beautiful women. It’s very rare to see a drop-dead gorgeous lady with a completely stand-up guy, so you have reason to be a little green with envy.

Despite what it may look like, being a jerk does not equate to instant success with women. You will enjoy much more success by focusing on certain behaviors that you are almost certainly exhibiting that are actually repelling women. You see, trying to hard to be a “nice guy” usually just causes women to think that you are timid and uninteresting.

If you were a gorgeous women with her pick of the litter, you would not want anything to do with uninteresting men either. Women may be from Venus and men may be from Mars, but I’m sure you can agree that life is too short to spend with boring people.

So why would you expect a woman to be any different? No matter what your mother taught you, you cannot bore a woman into liking you. I know that’s not what you’re trying to do, but the sooner you realize how you’re coming across to women, the better.

To succeed with women by being a jerk is to realize that crossing the line isn’t actually a bad thing. It’s not actually being a jerk. To a woman, a man who tip toes around her and worships her is not a nice guy. He is just a wimp.

Sucking up to women is just completely ineffective, and there is actually no advantage to exhibiting this sort of behavior. Be yourself and tell women what is really on your mind, even if you’re going to be ruffling her feathers by doing so! She will be relieved that you are a real guy and not just another suck up.

Forget everything your mother, your school teacher, or your best friend ever told you about attracting women. It has nothing to do with how nice you are OR how much of a “jerk” you are. It all boils down to attraction and entertainment. Women are entertainment driven creatures. They thrive most with men who are exciting and bold and come with a little drama.

Whether you’re a nice guy or a jerk really isn’t the issue. Just remember what women are really attracted to, and you will attract them. It isn’t rocket science; it really is that simple.

Here are some books that you should definitely pick up if you truly wish to start dating gorgeous women: Art of Approaching Review, Magic Bullets by Nick Savoy.

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